Melissa, my friend who teaches French at a secondary school in the metropolis called me and while sharing experiences, she mentioned that she was recently berated by a parent for assigning the task of sweeping the classroom to his daughter in conjunction with others. I asked If there was any cogent reason for his reaction such as that she is asthmatic or some other health condition and she said his only reason was that “she doesn’t even sweep at home and that she is not in school to sweep but to learn”. Two days later, I am out shopping with three middle-aged friends, and I was discussing the need for children to be taught and supervised on household chores.
Oyinda kicks off the discourse with “My take is that children must be taught very early the essence of cleanliness, and this transcends personal hygiene. The need for a clean environment and its attendant health and emotional/psychological benefits cannot be ignored. When they leave the “nest” to start lives on their own, who will keep the house for them? I recall I had a tough time getting Eunice to clean the house as a teenager. She would grudgingly take a brush and sweep all the dirt under the carpet, under the furniture or into hard-to-reach corners and pretend she was done. It was up to me to inspect and ensure she did it right. Guess what? When she got married, one of the selling points to her husband was her housekeeping capabilities”.
Meme was quick to point out the availability of more efficient cleaning and housekeeping appliances as well as methods. “With dishwashers, washing machines, hoovers and the like in place, keeping housekeeping has become a much easier task and cleaning can also be outsourced. One can also hire persons as housekeepers or assistants to help with the household chores. For our soaring migrant population, however, they have little or no access to housekeepers or assistants, but the modern appliances help them reduce the stress and time spent on cleaning. They must however first and foremost see the need to keep their environment clean which will propel them to acquire the relevant appliances.”
Efe agreed with the two previous speakers and went on to recount how her experience in boarding school had assisted her in assessing the quality of service recently provided by a professional cleaning company she had hired. Efe hailed from a royal family and as a result of her affluent background, had grown up with a retinue of servants, stewards and maids who took care of her environment. However, when she gained admission to one of the foremost girls-only secondary schools in the country, she was assigned cleaning tasks along with her peers. These included cleaning the bathrooms and toilets. Sweeping, mopping, dusting and tidying dormitories and classes. The levels of inspection and supervision taught her there was no hiding place for dirt as the tops of doors, wardrobes, ceiling fans and windows were carefully inspected for dust. There she learnt to recognise the difference in finishing between a swept floor and a carefully mopped one. Furniture was shifted to ensure that the floor beneath had been cleaned. Recently, she employed the services of professional cleaners and was appalled by the level of sloppiness displayed. She put her experience to work during the inspection process and uncovered the lack of diligence displayed in carrying out their assignment which on a cursory glance, appeared to have been effectively executed. If she did not know better, she would have paid for substandard work.
It is my opinion that everyone needs to place emphasis on cleanliness. Even a number of religions propagate ablution which is personal cleanliness. A clean environment, devoid of clutter not only enhances health but also stimulates the mind, uplifts one’s mood and increases productivity. The benefits of a clean environment are numerous, and one cannot but agree with the adage “cleanliness is next to godliness”. It follows that cleanliness is an acquired taste and skill. It is taught and learnt and profits a person. It starts at home and whether it is handled personally or contracted out, one must have expected outcomes and expectations and must be prepared to check or appraise them. This training, though traditionally taught and learnt by the female sex, has become increasingly learnt and practised by both sexes. As parents, we have a duty to teach our children the importance of cleanliness and how to maintain it by themselves. One cannot give what one does not have and if over-reliance is placed on external help with household chores, what happens when or where such help is unavailable? How does one cope?
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Havilah